I was thinking this. But I feel like he would have mentioned it by now.

Why do you keep avoiding the "well, why did you do it" question?

I hid mine just for privacy. I don't like the fact that people can just snoop through my friends list. Also because my boyfriend made a comment about people adding me and I hid it so he wouldn't see anymore of that therefor washing away any concerns, because I am not a cheater.

Well if your friends list is hidden too then whats good?

use some logic girl

Lol I was figuring out how to multi-quote people. Just answered the question!

I know this is probably the most logical reasoning but I just feel like he would have mentioned it by now if he was so bothered by it that he went and hid his list as well.

A lot of people do this. I did it because I had a weird friend that would sift through my friends list and add any guy he thought was cute.

I don't think it has anything to do with cheating if you don't see signs elsewhere

so he is more straightforward eh?

hmmm well then sis...you know him better then us so go with what your heart feels...I think you should confront him today and update us! But don't make it seem like it annoyed you at first. just casually mention it. so he can see that you notice these small things and that it bothers you a bit. trust me he will find it cute lol

Just move on, if he cheats on you just dump him or you can be honest and ask him in some kind of innocent manner without him thinking that you are some kind of jealous person

Mess! I used to talk to this guy from middle school who always snooped through my friends list and would ask me if the guys he thought were attractive were gay and if we could have a threesome with them.

Anywho, he's very open about cheating and said he would never cheat on me because he's been cheated on in both of his previous relationships. However you can't put anything past anyone.

I have nothing to hide from anybody in my life and I have my friends list set to "Only Me" under privacy. So no, not necessarily.

Yes, I would say he is. Whenever a guy comments on my photo or he see's something he deems inappropriate, he'll usually mention it which is why I'm concerned about the friends list bit.

It's a red flag, y'all should break up.

Great, thanks for posting!

So you're both paranoid that the other will cheat? You both have some major trust issues it seems.