Yeah, I've been in this situation plenty of times. It was like pulling teeth trying to get them to converse. Oh well, I just moved on.

Hot people who are dumb as a brick are people I don't want to be with. Boring people I could. They need some time, sometimes.

Charming >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> hot

Hot is disposable, cheap and superficial. Charming is pure magic and you're drawn to it for much longer

Instinctively, I seem to always spot the guys who are just hot and nothing more and I stop paying attention after one or two seconds. So, I don't get disappointed when they prove to be empty. I'm just satisfied I was right

I try to avoid them as much as I can.

good to **** i guess.

not worth it. get you a 7 or 8 that has a great personality rather than a boring 10. looks fade

I have literally zero interest in the typical "hot guy" stereotype of tall, muscular, etc. not even for their typical lack of personality but for the fact that their body won't even look the same in 10 years anyway. All the time and superficial care for not!

Maybe it's just that they are boring around you. It's possible they aren't interested or they don't like you for whatever reason and it's just manifesting itself as boredom when you're around.

Then there are other cases where "boring" can be good. It's good to have a guy who doesn't need to be out and about fighting trying waaaay too hard to not be boring and show out for others or who doesn't need drugs and alcohol all the time to liven them up...

It's annoying. I lose interest immediately. Like you have to have something going on upstairs or else why not just sleep with robots.

Bingo.

Doesn't surprise me

I genuinely find people who have flaws but amazing personalities way more attractive. Absolutely perfect faces perfect muscles perfect teeth are

I'll take a guy with a cute face, great sense of humor, quick wit and great personality over a "hot body" any day.

The hottest guys are typically very vain and lack any sort of personality other than a small list of interests.

if his HOT, his HOT so who cares...haha most hot people are boring, no biggy..

but im into cute more then hot

Sometimes I feel like people are unfairly judgemental of hot people....as if hot people are there for everyone else's entertainment.

Isn't everyone unfairly judgemental to some group of people though? It's not just hot people. We're all assholes to various extents

How can you be charming if you're not hot in the first place? Can you give some real examples when ugly prople are charming?