I'm 18 and I've never even been with a guy. Mostly because my parents are both pastors and own a church so I'm still closeted to most people. Now that I've slowly been telling my friends all about me being gay I just feel so behind and apprehensive when approaching the feeling of liking someone...it's like I forgot how to truly like someone and express that after hiding my feelings for people for so many years. Does anybody else experience/understand this?
I am the opposite. I can easily like someone. But really, don't force it. U can't really like someone by forcing it. It just doesn't work that way. That person will come when it's due.
Um if you like someone you just like them. You can't control who you like. Even if you pretend you don't, you know you really do. if you're trying to be more "out" just stop fighting it like you've been.
you don't want too! I have guys liking me and I just can't stand, but crushing on this guy I just meet Saturday and having the nerve to talk to him is just not happening! he is the best looking guy I know in real life (since he is denis stoff jr)
There is no "how to" when it comes to this kind of stuff. Perhaps you should become more comfortable with who you are, and try to express yourself a bit more. You don't have to rush either, just take your time.
Spend time with guys. Ask them out or go to group events and have some one on one time. You're going to like who you like, it cannot be forced. Although some people take longer to attach themselves to you. I would start by hanging out with guys who share your interests and eventually feelings of desire should come.
It's like dealing with anybody else. Every first encounter leads to some ending. Remember that. Every first comes to an end at some point. Either today or 100 years down the road.
If you're wondering how physical things start, take it slow. Hold hands. Cuddle a bit. Rest your head on his shoulder. Then graduate to a back rub. It's steps. Start where you're comfortable and slowly you'll find yourself wanting to go further
