Grindr is a scary place. People would have to be desperate especially with the way he looks. If a guy talked to me like that I'd be very hesitant and prob talk for months to see if he's stable.
Gotta be careful on tinder guess is why I don't like many guys on there in least his cute or has murtral friends
But this is tinder not grinder I don't know how ginder or grinder works