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Originally posted by Alystar
I'm not complaining or acting all dramatic, but I wish I was more attractive or had striking and better features to be hot. It doesn't help that being shy, and unspoken person at social events take the best of me, but being called cute kinda bothers me, or when folks notice my older, and more attractive brother and I tend to be ignored or compared to him setting me into jealously .
I kinda feel bad whenever I look at taller and muscular guys who tend to even features that qualify them as hot and I feel not good enough. I'm going to the gym, but I feel I will never beat my natural state of being slim alongside being on the short side of things.
It's also a struggle when I have this weird goofy vibe that I'm trying to replace and it's not working. Simply I wish I had the features which set me as hot rather than cute.
Also, instead of changing myself I've learned to love and cherish my weird goofiness. If people don't like it, that's fine, I don't need to spend time with them.
Does anyone share a similar struggle like mine or not really ?
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I feel very similarly to you. I'm also slim and not tall, with a more attractive sibling, and I also have a weird goofy vibe. And honestly, I'm not in a place yet where I've moved on from the fact I'm not the best looking guy. Sometimes I get anxiety when I go in public because I picture people looking at my body and being disgusted.
But, we both need to love ourselves before we worry about anything else. Find the things about you that you love and hone that. Your appearance is only one part of you; don't forget about everything else.
Good luck, and you can always PM me, because I really empathize with how you're feeling!
everyone at the club last night were dolls and i'm there like the ugly emo 
