So I have 2 questions...

Long story short I was talking a guy on Tinder and he asked me out on a dinner date so I went and I realize he was very fem which I didn't know or assumed since he came off as masculine over chat and on pictures.. My 2 questions are..

Was I catfish?

Should feminine gays tell people of their femininity while setting up a date online?

A part of me feels I was catfish but I'm not upset we actually ended up having a good date but due to his feminine traits I'm not interested romantically..

no

Nothing wrong with a preference and I'm not upset I'm just curious about situations like this

Does it really matter if he's feminine? He's still a guy. He's still the same guy in the picture.

No, not at all.

No, but it's ok if you didn't like him

You sure like to troll a lot lol

What's next, the guy doen't have the exact size of **** he said he has? Is that catfish too?

I agree yes he is and was but I'm not into overly feminine when it comes to dating in all honesty I personally feel there is nothing wrong with a preference

I'm very serious this was my Saturday night we even hungout at the bar after dinner, were cool! The thought of being catfish has been on my mind tho

I would've walked away.

At least get the free meal if you’re asked on a dinner date.. doesnt mean you have to talk to them again. You lose

Our masculinity never came up in a conversation I was just mislead by his pics. I blame myself and I think femininity is becoming a big deal in gay dating because some are turned off by that perhaps gays should start telling people if they are or aren't

That's not even close to being the same thing.

I hope people tell me if they're secretly 1/16 white because I'm turned off by that.
I hope people tell me that they don't kiss on the first date because I'm turned off by that.
I hope people tell me they like Sia because I'm turned off by that.
I hope people tell me they drink Pepsi rather than Coke because I'm turned off by that.
I hope people tell me they like making threads on ATRL talking about who turns them off, because I'm turned off by that.

Those are essential characteristics that everyone should just, like, know before agreeing to spend time with someone.

Your analyzing are you implying that's it's discriminatory to not be romantically into fems? I know many bottoms that are into feminine tops it's just their preference