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Originally posted by orange
Actually, that leads me to question what you consider cheating. Some consider it cheating to even think about another person while others, like me, think it's cheating only if you actually do something with that person and your partner does not even know about it. I think it's best when both can discuss who they are attracted to, while still having something more for each other and actually remaining loyal.
If you go by the former definition, I do think everyone cheats, but if you go by the latter view, then I think there are a fairly good amount of people who can control themselves. You just are more likely to see someone cheating than one being faithful because it stands out more.
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Well the first definition is borderline stupid to believe in. That is basically the belief that if I speak to another girl in my lifetime that is not either my girlfriend/wife or related to me, then I am cheating.
The second definition, as you pointed out, is more correct.
I'm also shocked at the number of people who answered "yes" in this thread. 2 said they were drunk. Not an excuse but at least I understand. What about the rest of you, including the person who said "everyone cheats".
but that doesnt count since i didnt call it a realationship so meh.
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but it's watever it i digress but as long as you can tell him/her the truth about the matter then u really didn't mean for it to happen in the first place...it's the lie that makes cheating worse than what it already is