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Originally posted by Toya
Y'all are making me tear up :( I'm so sorry for your losses
My dog is 12 and we've had him for 10 years and every time I remember that he's getting up there in age and one day I'm going to have to let him go, it makes me want to cry. I love him so much and can't imagine him just not being here anymore.
I would probably go get a new dog tbh which makes me feel kind of guilty but I feel like it would ease some of the pain.
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That's honestly the first suggestion people gave to me, not even 12 hours after I buried my dog. I was fuming.
I'd rather feel the loss, walk past the toy section and remember her and be sad that I can no longer spoil her, hug her and take her for hour-long walks in the woods than just 'get another dog' as that isn't suggested to anyone when a family member dies.
So few understood my pain. It's "just a dog", you'll "be alright", you can "get another one" and "love it just as much".
Um, no bitch, the dog that was my friend, companion, replacement for my own child and pet is no longer here and there's absolutely no way at this moment in time that I will love anyone or anything as much as I loved her.
I had to respectfully tell people to be quiet because their 'comforting' words were actually insulting.