Omg Both of you need to listen to Butterfly. I'd say you should probably start with Daydream and The Emancipation of Mimi as they're her most easily accessible albums. Then Butterfly or self-titled. But I really recommend listening to it all, perhaps even chronologically if you have the time/patience!
Tip: If you want to use a video on Youtube for an avi, NEVER pick the the 60fps one (ex. 1080 60fps, 720 60fps) to download. It's a really large file size and makes it a mess.
Almost everyone thinks it's trash.
