I wouldn't say anyone who hates fems is self-loathing. Judgemental is the word I'd use which is ironic because we've been judged by every other community so you'd think we would judge each other less
A male who's attracted to other males and does not dress or act like girls = "self-hating" and "wannabe-straight"
So what does what make wanting to be a girl, knowing that you'll never be one?
If that sounds ignorant to you, then associating homosexuality with femininity, expecting a gays to "embrace" it, not to mention making fun of "self hate", is the epitome of ignorance
Nobody's saying that being a masc gay is self-hating. Hating on a feminine gay for no reason other than the fact that he's feminine is quite telling though!
I knew that you're gonna be angry.
wat a pathetic loser 
