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Originally posted by Corsola
Can someone give me advice?
Like I'm not gonna go into details but my friend's boyfriend is being verbally abusive right now heavily (and I'm friends with both).
His boyfriend hasn't told me anything about it but I've heard it all from my friend and I just really think I need to say something.
However my friend is begging me not to but I just don't think this man is worth his time. Either I'm gonna make things worse (but he doesn't deserve to date my friend anyway) or I'll be able to get them on the path of resolving things. I wanna go the **** off cause my blood is boiling but honestly I'd just keep it classy and explain why I think he's wrong and educate him.
Should I message or not?
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the thing is, if it's a legit abusive relationship, your friend will get in "trouble" for telling you and you'll make things harder for them. be mindful of that.
otherwise...i dunno, your call, but if it's just one fight that's gotten out of hand i don't think that's bad enough for you to step in. but if it happens often then it's a different story
