On October 1 2015 she forgot to lock her door after opening it to place a burned pan outside.
She awoke to hear her bedroom door opening and Gray walked in yelling that she was a 'f****** bitch' in the early hours of following morning.
Gray had already taken her handbag, phone, jewellery, hard drive, keys, a glass vase and money and stashed them somewhere before returning to her room.
Later she found the handbag, which had been burned along with its contents, placed on the bonnet of her car.
Lily:
]'I had already been incredibly disturbed and upset by the letters Mr Gray sent and his contact via social media but the break-in was absolutely terrifying.
'I have had to move as a direct result of Mr Gray's actions. I couldn't live there knowing how easily he could break in and how vulnerable me and my children were.
'He is plainly delusional and obsessed and I am terrified as to what he will do next.
'Given his crazy obsession with me and I am really concerned about the future when Mr Gray is released.'
omg good he put her through hell and hearing her talk about this situation really made me realize how women aren't taken seriously at all by police/the court system when they're being stalked and threatened