
at those saying that it's better to stay to spend time with the parents. You can move out and still maintain a close relationship with your family, just because you move out doesn't mean you have to shut them out.
I went to college and worked at the same time, it was hard work but it's doable. It all comes down to how much you want your independence. A lot of these young adults stay at home because of codependence lbr. Those are usually the young adults at work who want everything to be done for them because that's how it is at home. I feel like it actually damages them more. I'm not saying you have to move out asap, it needs to be done when you know for sure you can depend on yourself emotionally and financially.
The biggest problem is that they expect things to fall in their laps without putting the work in. If there are no jobs in your field of studies, get any job just to hold you over until a better opportunity presents itself.
My dad to the day still offers me to return home, but I would never. I love them very much, but I love having a place I can call my own. Plus when I moved out I had a serious talk with them and promised that I would never use them or their home as a best western.