It upsets me so so so much when gay men hate themselves and their community.
And no this does not mean "It upsets me when gay men aren't campy." That's not what I'm saying. But it does upset me when gay men equate the rest of the gay community (except themselves, of course) to Grindr, or when they look down on effeminate men. How people still cannot look beyond stereotypes, even for their own community, baffles me.
