I can count 2 friends who were in monogamous relationship that got STDs form their partners.

Let's be real, we are trash

True, but we can at least be safe sex trash

I always used a condom until I got on PreP. I still use them every once in awhile, but yeah

I finally decided to make a grindr (don't actually talk to anyone or put up any of my information) but oh my GOD at the amount of people into "raw" and "bareback" on there who proclaim to be "clean" it's disgusting. So many talking about taking in your "loads" and ****. What is wrong with people?

The only way to contract an STI is if it's already in one of the two people in the relationship system. STI's do not get formed out of thin air.

My partner and I are in a monogamous relationship and have been tested regularly until February I believe? All the tests always came back negative. I prefer bareback sex with my boyfriend because it's more intimate, we both know we're clean so a condom really is unnecessary for us. If it were an open relationship it'd be totally different, but neither of us are sleeping around with other people.

Thank you. Prophet said it!

But you can always get to know somebody really well like after many years of dating them and eventually come to trust them, I have a feeling once you find the right one, you'll change your mind.

It's not really that necessary to use a condom if you're in a relationship and trust each other, I suppose.

ugh

I didn't use it on my first time (my partner was a virgin too) and it was in the US. When I came back to Italy I RAN to get my blood tested, I was scared af but thank heavens I have nothing

quite tragic. but oh well it's their business and their life so.