Discussion: Is prude shaming a thing? - Page 2

ThisIsSempi

Yes omg! I'm also 21 and I've chosen to be abstinent and for some reason EVERYONE has an opinion on it and thinks I'm silly for it

But I'd rather wait until marriage. I also get teased for not drinking, smoking, or partying but I find no fun in any of those things.

I don't understand people's obsession with trying to tell me how to live.

Lorenzo22

Idk I'm not sexually active as well but people think I am just because I'm gay

Rumbler

Everyone has the right to do with their body what they want and nobody has the right to tell someone else what they should be doing with their body.

Aiyan

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Originally posted by ThisIsSempi

I also get teased for not drinking, smoking, or partying but I find no fun in any of those things.

I don't understand people's obsession with trying to tell me how to live.

omg ! I'm in the same situation. I don't drink, smoke nor party, and people are so judgmental about those things. Everyone seems to have a word to say on how to live your life and what's best for you ... There's this like pressure on you to conform to these things.

It's hard sometimes 'cause I often wonder if they are other gays like me ... someone who's looking for something serious.

Submissive

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Originally posted by Aiyan

I don't know if you're trolling or not but this is literally the type of comments I get when I refuse to hook up with someone on Tinder ... Always so freaking condescending.

For me, having sex with someone you care/love is so much better than hooking up with a random guy who you know nothing about; but comments like that always makes me question myself and I end up thinking that maybe I should stop being "prude" and do hook ups more often ...

Why would a guy go for you and wait to **** when he can easily get it from someone else. And how can you truly love someone (romantically) without even having sex? Sex should always be the base of a relationship. What's the point of getting to know someone and then realizing there's no chemistry in bed.

Humunukuapua

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Originally posted by Submissive

Why would a guy go for you and wait to **** when he can easily get it from someone else. And how can you truly love someone (romantically) without even having sex? Sex should always be the base of a relationship. What's the point of getting to know someone and then realizing there's no chemistry in bed.

I've seen quite a few of your posts Submissive, which talk about you wanting an incestuous relationship with your dad and uncle, promoting bareback sex etc. If you truly believe in the things you're saying and think sex is the most important part of a relationship, I hope you get the help you need

illuminated

I am 21 and never had sex before with a man. It's ok for me, I guess.
I am just too anxious to have sex with first person that crosses my way. That's so random for me lol.
Everyone is allowed to do whatever they want! F what other people think about it.

MermaidPrincess

i felt the same way you did until i lost my first virginity

ariesjow

You're only a prude if you're going around chastising others about how "disgusting," "immoral," "stupid," etc. they are for being more sexually active than you. Otherwise, feel free to live your life and do as you please.

Afferty

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Originally posted by Submissive

Why would a guy go for you and wait to **** when he can easily get it from someone else. And how can you truly love someone (romantically) without even having sex? Sex should always be the base of a relationship. What's the point of getting to know someone and then realizing there's no chemistry in bed.

Sex should be a part of a relationship. Maybe it is the base of it but its not always the same with other people.

GhostHaus

Yes, just cuz I don't have sex or go out getting black out drunk people wanna judge

Aiyan

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Originally posted by Submissive

Why would a guy go for you and wait to **** when he can easily get it from someone else. And how can you truly love someone (romantically) without even having sex? Sex should always be the base of a relationship. What's the point of getting to know someone and then realizing there's no chemistry in bed.

Yeah because having great sex with someone means that you'll perfectly get along with them on every other aspects of the relationship ...
If you use your butthole as a radar to find a man, gosh you need help. Ain't nothing wrong with hooking up, but your reasoning is plain stupid.

Humunukuapua

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Originally posted by Aiyan

Yeah because having great sex with someone means that you'll perfectly get along with them on every other aspects of the relationship ...
If you use your butthole as a radar to find a man, gosh you need help. Ain't nothing wrong with hooking up, but your reasoning is plain stupid.

freakum.

Yep, I got shamed all through middle school n high school

but in the end, the same guys that were talking bout it are the same ones that are praising me about it now

so do you sis!

ThisIsSempi

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Originally posted by Aiyan

omg ! I'm in the same situation. I don't drink, smoke nor party, and people are so judgmental about those things. Everyone seems to have a word to say on how to live your life and what's best for you ... There's this like pressure on you to conform to these things.

It's hard sometimes 'cause I often wonder if they are other gays like me ... someone who's looking for something serious.

I'm sure there are lol, gay, straight, bi, trans, etc. There's always people who aren't interested in that type of living.

Partly for me is I was raised a certain way. I had a very strict mom but when I got older, I realized even when given the choice or pressured, I still didn't desire to have sex, smoke, or drink. I think most just do it for show anyway.

bleuwaffle

I find the gay hook-up culture disgusting as well but I wouldn't consider myself a prude. I'm perfectly comfortable talking about sex & ~taboo~ subjects.