No. It's our word, we are reclaiming it and using it to empower us as single confident in charge of our own lives homosexuals. ******s will unite and shatter the heteronormic patriarchy
It isn't homophobic if it's said by gay people because we are reclaiming the slur.
But I see why there will be gay people who still do not like to hear it even when a gay person said it. like if they were those who were called that and were bullied. it makes them recall that trauma
i have never been called it so it doesn't bother me when gay people use it. it might if a straight person did and if i was in a hostile environment.
in sex though, im submissive.. so if i was called it by a dom, i'd be turned on by it lol
also f** is a British slang for cigarette.. so like i find it an ordinary word i guess