Like if it was going really bad?

Last night I met this guy from Grindr, he seemed chill and didn't want to just hook up but when I got to his house it smelled like cigarettes and cheap and there were holes and walls and the place wasn't very clean, although I wouldn't bail because someone was poor but I was a little creeped out. We went into his room and the first thing I see is a Lady Gaga poster, I commented on how I liked her old music but I hated her new music and he seemed really defensive over her like I eventually had to change the subject

Then we start watching Netflix and he begins to tell me about his room mate and how he's fat and is missing teeth and how he's creeped out by him and locks his door at night because of him. I thought his room mate was going to try to peek in on us or something I started to get really creeped out as he told me more about his room mate and then I made the excuse that I was about to throw up, grabbed my stuff and ran to my car.


I feel like a shallow ass hole but this is the first time I've had to do this I was just to creeped out.

Have you ever ran off on a date when things got creepy?

You were way too patient, I would have left as soon as I see that Lady Gaga poster.

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Yes, I had to make a random excuse in the middle of a date to leave because it was boring af, the guy refused to speak whenever I spoke to him and would speak in a really low volume. Nothing agaisnt shy introverted people but really, hours after and you still can't say a word?

I'm howling

OT: One time I met up with a guy and he looked absolutely nothing like his photo's - I couldn't work with it; he was up to my waist, height-wise.

We went to a beach and I wasn't feeling it at all, so I was like 'I have to babysit', but he was adamant to hookup, so he ripped my shorts by accident bc he went to grope me - then he apologised and took me home. It was the most awkward 10 minutes driving back - then he tracked me down on fb and kept mesaging me for like a month

I just couldn't be like "you're not my type, sorry". That when I was 17 though, I would never get myself in that position again

Gurl you were kind of wrong for saying you hate Lady Gaga.
I'm not gonna go into someone's house and insult their fave.

waaait
maybe he was talking all of these stuff about his roommate just to get rid of his date because of this

Yes, i met this guy on grindr and went to his apartment. He started smoking weed so i hit some too and we started kissing. Then he said he wanted to show me something on his phone. So i look and he had child ****ography on his phone.

As soon as i saw it i jumped up and started to leave but he GRABBED me by the neck and told me that if i told anyone that he would kill me. he let me go and i RAN out the door.

I still see him around town and he was a bartender at my cousin's wedding

No because I sniff them out before I meet them (on the phone or at a coffee shop) so they are usually perfect for me.

I left after foreplay cause he wanted to do it bareback and said **** like dont worry i'll shoot outside. So I was like i have the condom imma go get it in the trunk of my motobike then I ran for my life.

YES. Last year at the Ariana Grande concert I met a guy who seemed sweet and nice and we went out and he was so boring, like he would only open his mouth to complain about how hot it was. After a couple hours I told him I had a urgent flight to Finland and left.

Fortunately, i've never had to leave mid date.

I've never been on a date.

No, I've been able to stick it out.
Let me be your first

omg

Oh my god a MESS