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Discussion: Are you picky when it comes to dating?
Member Since: 8/7/2015
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I don't date guys, or even befriend guys, with their Venus in Scorpio. That's the only non-physical thing that will stop me from getting in any sort of relationship with anyone.
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Member Since: 2/6/2014
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Originally posted by Petals
I don't date guys, or even befriend guys, with their Venus in Scorpio. That's the only non-physical thing that will stop me from getting in any sort of relationship with anyone.
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Are you saying that you won't date Venus in Scorpio people? Why?
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 3,396
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I guess you could say so..
Physically I prefer good-looking guys (duh), but I think my standards are a little different. I like someone who is not too thin (so a sixpack without pecs/arms does nothing for me), and not fat either. A small belly is okay. I like some hair on the face. Especially big eyebrows can be attractive for me. I like black/brown/dark blonde hair the most. Really light-blonde hair doesn't do it to me. Facial structure doesn't really matter. I generally prefer someone who is about as tall as me. A well-dressed guy is, of course, a plus. Don't be arrogant about it though.
Personality-wise, I can't stand someone with no chill. Don't be obsessed about me, and don't be emotionally attached right away. Basically: don't creep me out. I'll pay attention to you when I want to. I don't mind some arrogance. I also don't want someone with psychological problems when we start dating/talking. If it develops while we're together I'll be there for you as long as it doesn't hinder my own ambitions. I only want guys who go to university or are going to uni in the future. Be able to handle subtle remarks of criticism, so don't be offended. Be liberal-minded, as in, don't be a person who is disgusted by smoking, alcohol, etc. And finally, I like it when someone is loyal enough, so I can trust that person that they're not doing anything behind my back. I wouldn't date someone who is on Grindr while we're already talking/dating or has sex in toilets at clubs.
And finally, if I ever marry, we won't share money. I want a contract, to protect myself in case of divorce (even though the possibility of that happening should be very low if we're at that stage already).
To be honest, most of it is quite reasonable.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
Posts: 1,980
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My standards are average but nobody wants me. I guess other people's standards just happen to be higher or something 
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Member Since: 4/22/2012
Posts: 10,242
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Yes my last BF was gorgeous and not fem omg that is SO hard to find. Everyone is meet is either not attractive or super fem.
I'll stay single for now.
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Member Since: 8/6/2012
Posts: 22,977
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Yes, but I don't plan on dating anytime soon
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 10,232
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Member Since: 1/2/2014
Posts: 1,612
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Originally posted by Rigalo
Not necessarily at first, but after I hangout with a guy the first time I usually lose interest very fast. I guess at that stage I become picky
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This... 
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 5,754
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Originally posted by Swine
I guess you could say so..
Physically I prefer good-looking guys (duh), but I think my standards are a little different. I like someone who is not too thin (so a sixpack without pecs/arms does nothing for me), and not fat either. A small belly is okay. I like some hair on the face. Especially big eyebrows can be attractive for me. I like black/brown/dark blonde hair the most. Really light-blonde hair doesn't do it to me. Facial structure doesn't really matter. I generally prefer someone who is about as tall as me. A well-dressed guy is, of course, a plus. Don't be arrogant about it though.
Personality-wise, I can't stand someone with no chill. Don't be obsessed about me, and don't be emotionally attached right away. Basically: don't creep me out. I'll pay attention to you when I want to. I don't mind some arrogance. I also don't want someone with psychological problems when we start dating/talking. If it develops while we're together I'll be there for you as long as it doesn't hinder my own ambitions. I only want guys who go to university or are going to uni in the future. Be able to handle subtle remarks of criticism, so don't be offended. Be liberal-minded, as in, don't be a person who is disgusted by smoking, alcohol, etc. And finally, I like it when someone is loyal enough, so I can trust that person that they're not doing anything behind my back. I wouldn't date someone who is on Grindr while we're already talking/dating or has sex in toilets at clubs.
And finally, if I ever marry, we won't share money. I want a contract, to protect myself in case of divorce (even though the possibility of that happening should be very low if we're at that stage already).
To be honest, most of it is quite reasonable.
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The last line is a LIE 
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Member Since: 4/10/2011
Posts: 14,331
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Y'all all are. And with hook ups too.
Gay men are the pickiest in the world.
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Member Since: 4/10/2011
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Originally posted by Swine
I guess you could say so..
Physically I prefer good-looking guys (duh), but I think my standards are a little different. I like someone who is not too thin (so a sixpack without pecs/arms does nothing for me), and not fat either. A small belly is okay. I like some hair on the face. Especially big eyebrows can be attractive for me. I like black/brown/dark blonde hair the most. Really light-blonde hair doesn't do it to me. Facial structure doesn't really matter. I generally prefer someone who is about as tall as me. A well-dressed guy is, of course, a plus. Don't be arrogant about it though.
Personality-wise, I can't stand someone with no chill. Don't be obsessed about me, and don't be emotionally attached right away. Basically: don't creep me out. I'll pay attention to you when I want to. I don't mind some arrogance. I also don't want someone with psychological problems when we start dating/talking. If it develops while we're together I'll be there for you as long as it doesn't hinder my own ambitions. I only want guys who go to university or are going to uni in the future. Be able to handle subtle remarks of criticism, so don't be offended. Be liberal-minded, as in, don't be a person who is disgusted by smoking, alcohol, etc. And finally, I like it when someone is loyal enough, so I can trust that person that they're not doing anything behind my back. I wouldn't date someone who is on Grindr while we're already talking/dating or has sex in toilets at clubs.
And finally, if I ever marry, we won't share money. I want a contract, to protect myself in case of divorce (even though the possibility of that happening should be very low if we're at that stage already).
To be honest, most of it is quite reasonable.
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This is disgusting and I am proud to say I have never done it.
But the rest of this is pretty messy....
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Member Since: 2/4/2014
Posts: 2,069
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Originally posted by B'Day
Just be a decent looking person and treat me right. Oh, be funny and nice too. That's all I want, whys it so hard to find  |
!!!! and hopefully the sex turns out amazing and i'm happy.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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