What is this help she needs? Electric shock therapy? Hypnosis? Personality transplant?
She doesnt have an illness. She has a bad attitude, innate prejudices and lousy communication skills. The only one she can do anything about is the latter. The best you can hope is that she learns to suppress her anger and hatred a lot more than she has done. But that would just be a phoney watered down version of what she is.
These last rants were the final nail in the coffin for her. I don't give a **** anymore, no matter how talented she is. Get your **** together girl, you are an ADULT!!