I wouldn't do it cause I would only start going far with someone I really know and who I think I could have a long relationship with.

what if you feel a strong connection with them?

In theory I would do it but it honestly depends on the person.

How old are you? 3rd base? The question is more often whether ****ing is on the table or not. Ah maybe I need morals.

Nothing wrong with it if that's the way the date goes. It all depends on the person and whether it feels right.

Personally not for me,

but idk if you feel ur ready and they're ready and you use protection then ok... and you're both aware what it means (one night stand, Casual etc...) go for it.

The Into You lyrics tell me otherwise

depends on the vibe. no guarantee there will be a second date anyway, so might as well get something out of it if the mood hits

If it's someone I know I really wouldn't end up in an actual relationship anyway, then it's fine. If I like them more, I'd like to take it slow.

You should do anything that feels right to you as long as you know that you'll be able to handle it. As in not expecting wedding bells the day after and as long as you know you won't feel any shame regarding whatever took place.

I'm the kind of gay who takes several dates to really get Into The Groove with someone. Down there just doesn't work until 6th date TBH

Do whatever you want and feel comfortable with.

That's the tea, rushing things up with your date usually doesn't end well.

It depends for every person, I did it and I was fine.

You mean hooking up? It's ok if you're into the person.

I've also been on first dates where nothing happened. Ngl those were kinda boring though.

I've done it more than once, no shame bitch.

I've always had sex on the first date
it's normal for gays, but for women it's a **** thing

I have never done that.

Usually do the do after a month of being with her.