the ability to lead and be a role model

How!

Not having an ATRL account

I screamed

Behaviour, attitude, brain, and the way of dressing.

Their personality

Them just being themselves and not trying to lay it on too thick... trendy hipster wanna be beards and stuff don't make a guy masculine.

Maybe you guys should be worried about other qualities like if he has a job, whether he works hard, if he's kind to strangers, loving, instead of top/bottom and masc/fem

You can look for someone that has all of those qualities though.

Sweaters.

This:

Tbh.