Originally posted by Mariano

Yeah sis, but you are saying it from the perspective of a gay male. For a straight guy it's definitely harder to say whether a guy is gay or not (unless the gay guy is very fem and so on). And the same way, pretty sure that a lesbian girl can tell if a girl is lesbian or not, even if she is more like straight girls.



Calm down sis, I agree that he generalized, but yeah calm down sis

Anyway you are both handsome


OT: Yeah I agree, girls are hot to guys, no matter what. But those type of lesbians that are more manly have it just as bad as the fem gays. However, the gays that are manly more like straight guys, do not have it as easy as those lesbian girls that are more like Bi girls. But those manly gays, they still have it far easier than fem gays or masculine lesbians.

Originally posted by Floyd Mayweather

Honestly I see them as a threat. Some of them pull more women than me

Originally posted by Guernica

lipstick lesbians are the only ones who are "accepted" and it's not even real acceptance. It's straight men getting boners from the thought of them with their girlfriends, which is incredibly dehumanizing since they're treating the girl's sexuality like something that's made to turn them on. Butch lesbians struggle with acceptance just as much, if not even more, than gay men. Straight men are angry because they don't fulfill their "hot lesbian" fantasy and straight girls and gay guys are just plain afraid of them Straight men don't actually care about lesbians and their happiness. They don't care about lesbians being treated equally under the law, they don't care about lesbians having marriage or adoption rights. All they care about is whether they're hot and if they are, fantasizing about them making out and having sex as if that's all lesbians do. People mistake that as acceptance but it's not. It's just treating women like sexual objects yet again. Lesbians/queer women also struggle with being invisible in the media. The only times queer women tend to be shown in movies or tv shows are as experimenting straight girls who do it so men will find them hot, or bisexual girls who are promiscuous and sleep with anybody and everybody. This just leads to even more fetishization and oversexualization.

Originally posted by iKatyCats

It's more like lipstick lesbians have it easier because they technically look and act like a straight girl (and most of them are honestly bi since they've been with both men and women), whereas for Gay men we're obviously different from straight guys in terms of looks, personality etc.

Originally posted by iKatyCats

Why you're taking it offensively is beyond me, obviously we're different.
We're more into fashion, pop culture, have more androgynous features & into taking care of our looks.
Glanced at your instagram and i could tell you're not straight, we're just different.
Whereas lipstick lesbians are more hard to diffrentiate from straight girls

Originally posted by medoner

simply because "lesbians" are accepted and objectified by straight white men therefore it's more accepted

Originally posted by HandsOn

Lesbians are absolutely not "more accepted" than gay men.

Originally posted by accelgors

since when? most of the gay guys i know outside of atrl are just like straight guys. and people rarely know i'm gay before i tell them. that's a stereotype buddy


1. i find fashion incredibly boring
2. i look like any other man
3. i actually don't care how i look at all. i don't understand why people care about random stranger's opinions of how they look, actually.

once again, this doesn't apply to all or even most gay people. the most masculine guy of my friends is actually gay. it's a huge generalization and it's the attitude that homophobia comes from.