I don't mind if black people say it, but honestly it pisses me off when my non black classmates say it with an er thinking it's funny Ban them from saying it tbh.
I am white but I really never understood why black people are ok with calling each other the n-word. I wouldn't appreciate friends calling me f*g because I'm gay. Both sound a bit derogatory imo. But to each their own, you can't stop it I guess.