Maybe he thinks you're gay and you remind him of the topic so that is why he brings it up so often.

Tbh I'm starting to think so. Like I have a buddy named Alex and I swear he's a he sounds just like the guy in the OP.

Once we were at the mall and we were talking and laughing about whatever, then we started walking down the escalator and we were going down the same step and he FLIPPED OUT, because apparently "that's gay".

if it's an obsession and they show fear/explosive anger, then yes. For that much passion to be displayed and unwarranted anger means they are either scared of being outed or are struggling with issues within themselves in terms of identification.

This seems more of a gay fantasy than reality based. Homophobes hate you. End of.

I feel like the super aggressive out spoken ones are self hating closet cases

eh. i doubt it. i'm sure some of them are, but the majority of them are probably just dumb.

U sound pressed

Most or a good amount of them. I read about it the other day and it's proved.

This.
Why should it be a "gay fantasy" though?

Almost all homophobic guys are the pits. Many of them only show obsessive hatred towards gays and making everything about gays. They are so pressed and mad and it's actually pathetic. They feel threatened by us so they show no respect.

I'm a girl btw and its not just me. He brings up homosexuality with all of my siblings too and accuses all of them of being gay for defending gay people like... its a weird obsession. I feel like he's uncomfortable with his own sexuality and probably had romantic feelings for a guy which is why he's so obsessed with talking about it and being homophobic. My whole family is religious and thinks being gay is a sin because the bible says so but they aren't obsessed with gays or hate them. He gets so angry about it which is funny because he's the one that always brings up the topic. If someone is really homophobic they would hate both gays and lesbians. The fact that he sees nothing wrong with being a lesbian but is so offended by gay men is suspicious. My sister went to see him a week ago and he brought up the topic so my sister showed him some videos of gay youtubers she likes and he stopped speaking to her for 3 days
If that isn't suspicious idk what is. The people that bark the loudest are usually in self-denial imo.

Some, sure. But the majority are not

I think some of them, the ones that only hate it because its "disgusting" and not because of religious ideas.

Not all of them, but the ones who are obsessed with gays and/or obsessed with a gay guy in special for NO reason, probably.

Like that guy who used to be in my class around 2009-2010. He was the typical jock, homophobe... and yeah, all of that stereotype. He basically tried to ruin my life and my self-esteem so many times. He bullied me, tried to beat me, called me names, every single day calling me a "worthless ***" and some other horrible things that i hate to remember. Also tried to put the whole class against me too. And actually, i never done anything to him. He just hated me for no reason. And in my life i'm always very open about what i like... in that year, i used to have HSM backpacks, was a huge fan of Disney stars, started to be a Little Monster too, and i didn't hide that.

Anyway, let's talk about today: I found out that he is actually gay too. When i see him walking on the streets, he smiles at me and try to come closer, as if we are friends but basically i pretend he don't even exist and i ignore him. Cause even after all these years, i still hate him and everything he has done to me.

But i think he bullied me because i was always very open about what i like. I wasn't out of the closet at the time, but EVERYONE could tell i was gay just by looking at me And he was obsessed with me and the fact that i was gay. I just feel sorry for him. A lot of guys out there acts like him. They don't accept the fact that they are too and put all their anger in someone who is just like them.

It's more typical than people can imagine tbh.

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