I don't really think about the gender spectrum that much. Like I feel like a boy - but I don't really feel a need to assert my masculinity or anything.
I just do whatever I want, wear whatever I want and I date whoever I want and if you don't like it, I don't give a...
My only problem is when people start asserting their own gender beliefs on others. Like you don't have the right to force people to identify as one, the other, both or neither. Just let people live their own lives.