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Originally posted by Can't_M!ss_This
You sure do get asked to model a lot for somebody who is a self admitted ugly person. I'm sure you're being too hard on yourself.
Just do what you want. He's most likely planning on using you in some way. They always do
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first of all thank you...you're sweet tbh
but in general my past experiences have always ended up bad or there seems to be ulterior motives like you said so it never comes to fruition.
I remember KillingYourCareer gave me good advice on something like this once so I'm being smarter with this tho. like the artist shared his personal facebook page, his official website and stuff.
maybe i should post the convo here or pm it to you so you can help spot if there is something off about him? I tend to trust ppl too fast and hardly see any signs even if they might seem obvious to others
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Originally posted by Mastamaind
Your "infatuation" is not necessarily bad, It depends, if what he does boosted his attractiveness to you (and you plan to bring something to the table do as you'd do with someone you care), it's ok, happens a lot, but if what he does makes you think of ways you can use his talents for your personal gain, that's... shady.
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this makes sense tbh. idk if I got interested/infatuated because of the fact that he is an artist and it somehow attracted me to him or if it is because I see personal gains when i see his work...i suppose i should give it a bit more time before seeing if I should pursue this any further. just to see if I have shady motives or if its infatuation based on the fact that he does art.