Discussion: Straight to Bi Questions

iConicLegend

I have a few questions personal ones that i want to share with you guys and hopefully are answered. but instead of making a seprate threads i will leave them here

I've only dated girls so i don't know what its like to be with the same gender, but i guess im curious to atleast know.

...

not really into the loud feminine ones could possibly get caught.

1. I just want to know whats its like to be in a relationship with the same gender, Less drama? Is it just as materialistic and needy as the normal M/F relationships? (is it cheaper sis?)

2. Is being in a closet relationship with a gay easier then being in a open public one?

3. do you ever get*mean comments in public if your relationship with the guy is public?

4. Is it possible to get a masculine top to bottom for you?

J a y

1. Relationship is the same, the content of drama's just different.

2. Depends on the society in which you live.

3. No. I'm not normally the type of guy to be openly affectionate in public anyway. I guess from the outset, we look like two friends.

4. Yes.

Dessy Fenix

Quote:

Originally posted by iConicLegend

I have a few questions personal ones that i want to share with you guys and hopefully are answered. but instead of making a seprate threads i will leave them here

I've only dated girls so i don't know what its like to be with the same gender, but i guess im curious to atleast know.

...

not really into the loud feminine ones could possibly get caught.

1. I just want to know whats its like to be in a relationship with the same gender, Less drama? Is it just as materialistic and needy as the normal M/F relationships? (is it cheaper sis?)

2. Is being in a closet relationship with a gay easier then being in a open public one?

3. do you ever mean comments in public if your relationship with the guy is public?

4. Is it possible to get a masculine top to bottom for you?

1. As I dated both gender once, it's the same to me. Although I never particularly experienced drama outside of breaking up.

2.) Harder! Much harder, especially if you go out. Being open about it, you'll probably care less about "disapproving eyes".

3.) I never personally got mean comments from a public relationship but I could definitely tell there was a few disgusted people. Never enough to ruin my day/date though.

4.) This question is weird and depends on the guy. Some guys are masculine bottom or vers.

Scandal & Media

Cherish

Quote:

Originally posted by Scandal & Media

Why is this funny? What better place to ask then a forum where the population is mainly gay/bi and straight guys

dirrtydiana

1. As a girl, females have given me the most drama.

2. It wasn't for me. If I'm with someone, I want the world to know.

3. IDT this question is directed to women, but from experience, I think it depends on you area.

4. IDK

DevonDreams

1. I don't think straight woman ask for much as for gays they like to be cared and like alot of attention and to be taken out and all that ****... Less drama? Ehh not really. Cheating is a big problem in the LGBT+ community

2. Definitely not. The closeted one is probably scared, but if you find yourself in that situation don't force them to come out.

3. Never had a public relationship.

4. Is it possible to get a "masculine top" to "bottom for you"? Girl... If they are a "masculine top" why in the world would they bottom? that's not in their agenda... Don't try it, sis.

Vertigo Stick

Quote:

Originally posted by iConicLegend

I have a few questions personal ones that i want to share with you guys and hopefully are answered. but instead of making a seprate threads i will leave them here

I've only dated girls so i don't know what its like to be with the same gender, but i guess im curious to atleast know.

...

not really into the loud feminine ones could possibly get caught.

1. I just want to know whats its like to be in a relationship with the same gender, Less drama? Is it just as materialistic and needy as the normal M/F relationships? (is it cheaper sis?)

2. Is being in a closet relationship with a gay easier then being in a open public one?

3. do you ever mean comments in public if your relationship with the guy is public?

4. Is it possible to get a masculine top to bottom for you?

1. It doesn't matter. Male, female, zir, or zen relationships drain money! It's part of the job.

2. Generally, no. It's hard to develop a serious relationship with someone in the closet. It causes issues in many other areas...and being someone's secret is not going to be exciting all the time. Red flag.mp4

3. Idk suddenly I can't read

4. Yes. Masc and fem have nothing to do with top or bottom.

DevonDreams

Quote:

Originally posted by Vertigo Stick

4. Yes. Masc and fem have nothing to do with top or bottom.

It sounds like he was asking if someone who referred to themselves as a "masculine top" would bottom if asked.. Not "masc are all tops and fems are all bottoms"

J a y

Quote:

Originally posted by DevonDreams

It sounds like he was asking if someone who referred to themselves as a "masculine top" would bottom if asked.. Not "masc are all tops and fems are all bottoms"

Which is yes tbh.

I know many that say they're M/T but would B for the right guy. ~~It seems I am that right guy~~

Ryanicorn

1.Each gender has their drama, but the only real difference is, instead of worrying about if sex is an issue while she's on her period. you only have to worry about if the taco bell your bottomed consumed less than 2 hours ago is going to be a problem

2. Somewhat. You have more privacy, but at the same time it can get stressful trying to keep things under wraps and covering all bases. I was in a private relationship for a month, and we kept getting so much questions and alot of other things

it got too hectic

3. It depends on the people around you. Believe it or not, you're most likely to be judged for being homophobic than you are for being gay lol

4. Yes. A lot of masculine tops will be submissive to the right man. also , not everyone who is masculine is a top

Vertigo Stick

Quote:

Originally posted by DevonDreams

It sounds like he was asking if someone who referred to themselves as a "masculine top" would bottom if asked.. Not "masc are all tops and fems are all bottoms"

Oh, mess

Oxygen

1. I find that there is less drama, and definitely cheaper as you don't have to buy jewellery which is so expensive

2. I find being it easier in a public one, but thats because I live in a mainly homophobia free area

3. Never. Maybe a look or two but that's cause you rarely see it

4. Ask my boyfriend

Can't_M!ss_This

You're not going to be able to top a top. You're going to be able to top a versatile top.

Relationships of any kind are hard. They take work and patience and a level of vulnerability.

Antonini

The next step is accepting your true self <3