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Married Woman has relationship with 5 different Men at once
Polyamorous woman who is dating FOUR men outside of her marriage reveals why sleeping with other people has made her relationship with her husband stronger
- Lisa, whose name has been changed for privacy reasons, says pursuing multiple relationships has had a positive impact on her marriage
- Sometimes the 34-year-old, whose husband is also polyamorous, goes on as many as three dates a week with other people
- She first discovered their shared interest in multiple partners when they completed a magazine survey before having first threesome a year later
- Lisa said she has not looked back after instigating the threesome with one of her husband's female co-workers
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A married woman who has admitted to being in relationships with five different men at once - just one of whom is her husband - claims that the other men in her life have actually helped to strengthen her marriage.
Writing under the pseudonym of Lisa, the 34-year-old said she has been in a relationship with her husband for half of her life, but claims having other partners has improved rather than hindered their partnership.
Speaking to Elle.com, Lisa, who is currently seeing four people other than her husband, revealed that she and her partner have been enjoying an open marriage for the past few years, explaining that they have come up with a certain set of guidelines to ensure that they both stay comfortable and happy with their arrangement.
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At the moment, Lisa explained that she has four partners other than her husband - two of which she also shares with him.
To begin with they used to see new partners 'as a couple' but five years ago they started seeing others independently.
Sometimes she has as many as three dates a week with other people.
'Right now, I have four other partners, two of whom we see together,' she explained. 'We each have maybe two dates with other people a month on average.
'Sometimes we go months where we only date and have sex with each other, other times we have three dates in a week.
'My personality type is conducive to multiple relationships. I'm a connector. I grew up with a really big family; I'm the kind of person who requires a lot of attention.
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She said they first brought up the subject after moving in together aged 18 when they came across the question 'how do you feel about monogamy?' in a magazine survey and they both selected the answer 'it's an unrealistic expectation.'
A year later Lisa instigated a threesome with one of his co-workers.
'We didn't talk about it just then, but let it simmer for a year until we had an opportunity to have a threesome with a coworker of his, which she and I instigated,' she said.
Before the threesome she told him she was fine with him having sexual contact with the woman but 'not penetrative penis-in-vagina sex'.
But 'in the heat of the moment' she said she had a change of heart.
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Lisa said both her and her husband had many dependency issues at the start of their relationship and having multiple partners has highlighted that they need to be independent. She said they do not want the kind of relationship where they 'police' each other.
Despite having five partners she admits she still gets jealous but claims it could feature in 'any relationship'.
'You work through jealous feelings just like you work through the rest of your feelings,' she said. 'You feel it, you talk about it, you make a plan for how to do better in the future.'
When her husband was involved with a woman who was 'the exact opposite' of her she was 'really uncomfortable'. But when she met her she claims she 'totally got it' and saw how it 'brought out a totally different side' of her husband.
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