It's hard to make gay male friends but usually when you do, they make better friends. It's annoying because in the gay community a lot of men are out to get one thing.

Actually.. Now that I think of it, one of my gay friends became my boyfriend I guess I'm down one

Find gays that are out of the scene for starters, that will decrease the attitude by 70%. Find guys that like to do things other than drink and be at bar or club every weekend. My circle of gay friends has dwindled but for all the right reasons.

I don't have any gay friends either, it's justo so hard for me to make friends

And with the ones I have tried, all they wanted to do is 'dirty stuff' they didn't even wanted to hang out or something

This I have way too many gay friends

I think personalities between straights and gays are so different ... so this could be why

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Because most gays I meet in real life are either over the top and high maintenance or crave for sex with all his gay friends. Just no.

where are you looking? if you're looking for people in places like gay bars or grindr then most of them will have similar personalities. i've found that gay friends that you make through friend-making methods are more unique and fun, and i've made a lot of really interesting gay friends that way.

Girlfriends>>>>
I do have a couple of close friends that are gay tho.

This has many reasons.

Firstly, the amount of gay people in the society is 1-5%. So there is less than 1 person in 20 that is gay.
Secondly, if you exclude lesbians in the word "gay", you'll have to halve what is left or at least subtract a substantial amount of people from it (I heard theories that there are less lesbians than gays).
Thirdly, a significant part of gays only enjoy hookups and prefer to identify with the straight-dominant world surrounding them.

And we have the rest. Relate this number to the whole world. How many friends do you have in the whole world surrounding you? Take that number and divide it like I did with the society earlier. And that is a statistic for having friends among gay people. Also, the question of mutual affection (similar to hetero men/women friendships) is an issue.

There are far fewer gay people than straight people. Gay people are just as hard to get along with, there's just less of them. It's not that deep

you and me are on the same boat sis

+1

SAME OP, same. it's kinda a shame. id like to have a few gay friends that nderstand. most of my guy friends are my frat brothers and they dont get it.