If you've ever been through a breakup, divorce, etc, what is your way/had been a way you dealt with it?

this but then i think about them constantly for weeks, maybe months. it's just, ugh i breakups

Be busy and always surround yourself with good friends and family who can support you through the hard time It was hard at first but you'll get used to it It might take months or longer

get a new hobby and focus on yourself

grow and become a better person heartbreak is a learning experience and you grow a lot from it. reflect on what went wrong but don't regret or resent anything or anyone

D-essert

I start talking to everybody and their daddy.

it doesn't matter how much time it hurts, someday everything will be ok
just try to focus on you and surrounding yourself with good, positive people and energy

Time really is the only correct answer.

But as another poster said.. Work on yourself

this is amazing, thank you i havent went through a breakup in a while, but i just wanted to bring up the topic cause ive had many friends go through it recently. this is true and wonderful advice, thank you omg Lheart2:

i needed to hear this tbh. everytime my relationship ends i end up resenting that person for weeks but this is helped to what i've learned, to always never hate anyone and move on and better myself. spot on love

!! like go through all the stages like crying, resentment, confirmation, and all of that. you really do end up feeling better and like you can move on, even if it ends up taking longer than what we planned.

(but true)

i love this advice, thank you i always try to and just incase for the future if i go through it i will, ahhh thank you

Honestly, I fell into a deep depression that lasted months. Around 6 i think. I managed to go to work, but as soon as i got home i just laid down for most of the day. Course, i was kinda down during it too. It was an affair actually. Mess.

It still bothers me. But i work 2 jobs. So that keeps me busy so its not always on my mind. Even though there are many times where i dont wanna go to work and just mope. But i cant. Which is good. Otherwise id just waste away.

Put this on repeat til I have no tears left

really badly...I was in a perfect relationship a month ago but bc he couldnt fall IN love with me...he ended up.
I normally just go find another guy its not the best idea but I cant be single....I barely have a family or friends so the best love I get is just with a boyfriend

single now and its a struggle but im still casually ****ing my ex..dunno fi its healthy though,

I stop eating, sleep non stop to get rid of the pain...this was a bit easier bc my friend invited me to Tasmania.

it actually hurts more crushing on a guy :S

Always give yourself a mourning period. Usually I'll cry and be sad for a week, write a song or two about it, and be over it

I still hurt and cry from my first relationship that ened in 2014..and I still miss him...I guess u never really forget about anymore if you really loved them. so it can take longer then 1 year.

I obsess over it until I'm so drained and exhausted that I'm basically forced to get over it.

aka I die

I've always been the one to break up so I always was already over it.