Let me explain further since I had to shorten my original title:
Would you ever date a gay man who is heavily involved in the gay lifestyle and or gay nightlife? For examples, those gay men who work at a bar/club either as a bar tender, dancer, or promoter, etc.
Bartender/promoter/bouncer are fine. Dancer probably not but I wouldn't turn him down right away tbh.
I wouldn't judge someone based on their working in a gay nightclub - but I wouldn't find myself attracted to someone lacking the depth to realize life isn't just about being gay and not everything has to be devoted to your sexual orientation.
IT mainly depends on the person attitude, you can't judge a person based off where they work. It's HARD out here to make good money, sometimes you gotta do, what you gotta do to survive.
Yall saying you want loners, nerds, introverts, etc. How come no one is dating my ass? Like I have to pretend to be outgoing in order to get asked for a 2nd date.
