There has only been four moments in my life where a girl has tried to make a move on me: 4th grade, 6th grade, 10th grade, and the summer before I started 11th grade; and even though I wasn't fully in tune with my sexual orientation at those points, I still felt uncomfortable. For the first three girls, I just remember laughing it off and not saying anything that would lead them to believe that I took them seriously or wanted to be with them. For the last girl, I was still in the closet and felt the pressure from all of my friends getting into relationships, so I ended up dating her. I hung in there for three weeks, and then left her for a guy If a girl were to say something like that to me today, I would do my best to be upfront about being gay.

Originally posted by Vespertine In high school I would say I wasn't looking to date. Now I'm honest and say I'm gay.

Originally posted by RickyH. Literally saying "sorry I'm into guys."

Originally posted by Truth Teller This I feel like most girls are indirect with their flirting or however you wanna call it. They won't flat out say "hey, I like you", they'll try to show you through their actions or body language. Some signals are harder to ignore than others (I've had a girl massage my inner thigh under the table, which was awkward), but I usually act dumb or try to turn it into a joke. I do identify as bi though, so I don't do any of that with girls I actually like