If you've been on Grindr or any other gay dating app, most guys just wanna have sex. It's almost impossible to ever find a guy who will pay for a date, treat with you respect, and not make any sexual advances within the first 10 minutes (only to then use you and move on to another guy). Girls are always taken out to expensive dates and treated like queens. If a guy does anything disrespectful, they can usually find another guy very easily.

because... men are inherently sexist.

Why buy the cow if the milk is free?

Girls experience this too.
And I guess because men have a stronger sex drive? But yeah, the standard (so straight in this case) always gets it easier.

why are you looking for a guy who will pay for you if you're not going to pay for him

It's much much easier for a girl to find another guy if that happens. It's also less common than with gay males.

I would 100% pay for another guy. Almost No one wants to go on dates or even return the favor if do pay.

First the forcing sororities to allow gay men thing, now this? It seems like you have some issues and frustrations that you're projecting and misdirecting at women. Women aren't inherently treated better or in some advantaged position because typical male/female dating norms lean toward men paying for dates.

Hun you are so misguided. The grass is not always greener on the other side.

uh

So this actually isn't about girls being treated better, but about gay guys not treating other guys (you) well...

Wow thank you for remembering me. I felt pretty anonymous on this site until now. someone does care!

I have to disagree with you though. I make strong valid points in both threads. There are no lies. Maybe the truth is hard to swallow.

I see what you mean. Because men, whither straight or gay, tend to be extremely sexual. We are slaves to our dicks

It's about gay guys in general. I was just using myself as an example.

If you are looking for a man to pay for a date and love you with respect you wont find it on Grindr

Youre beef isnt with women its with yourself not going outside and snaTching a man.

Wait what lol. You think girls aren't treated as sex objects by males? You think girls don't experience annoying text like "wyd " or "without me ;("

Who misguided you this badly and taught you this.

Don't confuse what gay men do to themselves by years and decades of a stigma of over sexualization the gay community has put upon themselves with what girls experience when seeking relationships. Hell no.

I see some guys call girls "bitches and ho's" to their other guy friends.

Maybe because there's more straights than gays? And if we wanna compare the ratio to straights and 'out-of-the-closet' gays?

guys are just.. a mess tbh

This, a lot of us can't help being so horny