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Originally posted by Witch_Privilege
I went through this with my grandma from the end of 2014 until the beginning of 2015.
It was the worst experience of my life. She had lung cancer, and was basically bed-ridden for the last few weeks of her life. When she passed, I was sad obviously, but I was also happy that she wasn't in pain anymore.
I feel like I spent so much time with her in the end, too, so I didn't have any regrets.
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My other grandmother, who was like a best friend to me, died a few years ago from pancreatic cancer. That's a day I will never forget.
This impending death took me back to my other grandmother/best friend because now is a time where I really need her for support and knowing I'm not getting her back hurts.
And through that, there was 40 minutes of talking to myself and practically crying (which I hadn't done in 10 years). After those 40 minutes, I felt relief because after 6 years, I finally came to terms with her passing.
Accepting a grandmother's death through a grandmother's impending death. Strange how that works.
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It's overrated in base at least. 
