Lesbian tricked man into getting her pregnant so she could save on IVF and claim benefits
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A GAY woman tricked men into sleeping with her to get pregnant so she could be a single mum and claim benefits.
Kafayat Adegoke, 30, from Bradford, decided to find herself a 'sperm donor' by pretending she was straight and bedding potential 'dads' because it was cheaper than IVF or surrogacy.
The mature student, who is in a relationship with a woman, quizzed the men she dated about their family background, medical history and blood group before she picked her Mr Right.
She then ditched him after two months when she fell pregnant.
Kafayat explained: "Ever since I was a little girl I have yearned for a baby.
“I decided to pretend I was straight and trick a man into getting me pregnant.”
As a gay woman, surrogacy or IVF were options but I couldn’t afford these and they seemed way too much hassle.
She told how she researched the best sexual positions to get pregnant in, though admitted the thought of sleeping with men made her "feel sick".
At the time Kafayat was working as a TV producer and she took a shine to one of the studio engineers.
She said: "He was good-looking, witty and intelligent.
"Again, I spent time sussing him out and asking him about his family history and even discovered what blood group he was."
Kafayat slept with the man twice before getting pregnant.
I didn't fancy him at all but we had become friends.
"I decided to tell him the truth, that I had used him to get pregnant.
"He was understandably furious and was shouting at me."
Kafayat said she will tell the child their dad is a sperm donor but won't go into any more detail than that.
She admitted people have been shocked at what she has done but argued it "wasn't easy".
Kafayat, originally from Nigeria, explained: "My baby’s dad has tried to contact me a few times but I want nothing to do with him.
“I don’t regret tricking a man into getting me pregnant. All that matters is my baby.”
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