no, you can be fem and still a very likable person
on the other hand, a lot of masc guys are arrogant and obnoxious and annoying as **** so let's call it draw
People that act like they're on RuPaul's Drag Race are annoying. All the "yaasss" "siss" etc in real life is so cringe-worthy. Actually femininity is not annoying, but there are annoying people that happen to be feminine.