Ok that might sound a bit what the **** for some of you but I never felt like coming out, I mean that's something that always bothered me ****'s sake we don't see straight people coming out and I mean when you "come out" it isn't only one time, you come out to your parents and then there's the family, friends, peeps you get to know after that and is a thing that keeps on going for a long time and it makes me cringe only to think about to be honest

I'm not saying that i'll be closeted for the rest of my life, to be honest I never lied about who I am and who I like to **** with but that's not something that I feel like telling people like

your thoughts on this?

So you can be yourself and be proud of who you are. In a way, coming out gets rid of the toxics in your life too. So, if you reveal you're gay and your best friend reacts badly and insults you, you know who is worthy of staying in your life and who isn't.

Everyone is assumed straight.
Hate when people say "I don't need to come out!1!1!1"
Like congrats, bravo, good for you.
Coming out for some people is very therapeutic.

But that's the point, i'm already who I am

Cause we're not in a place yet where homosexuality is common or even close to the norm

And if we don't come out we'll never get there, this might sound weird, but in order for a movement to actually move people have to speak up

I'm not gay so I wouldn't know but -- doesn't coming out cause a sense of fresh air? All that inner conflict within your mind, not being yourself because you're afraid of society -- and when you confirm who you really are, doesn't that make you brave and aspiring?

I somehow agree with this.

There's totally a grey area between being "out" and being "closeted" that people don't realise - an area where you are open about your sexuality, but never had to make an occasion to come "out". In instances like where a family or friends already know beforehand and have figured out you are gay, or in ones where the idea of having to confront people and come "out" as though you have a dirty secret is terrifying or brings you anxiety, but in a more relaxed situation where you simply are asked, you have no problem stating your orientation.

mess i'm not trying to say that I don't need to come out!11!!1!!!11!!!!1 but it is something that bothers me you know? I know it can be a away to set yourself free but that's the point you know? I already feel free, it makes me cringe the fact that we have to come out of something to be "ouselfs" idk if that makes any sense and like i'm pretty sure my parents know that I like the D but they get scared to ask if they do so i'll have no problem telling them

Aren't people who haven't come out, people who deny their true sexuality? But I don't think people have to tell the world what their sexuality is, straight or queer.

One thing I've learnt in life is sitting and waiting for something to happen is the worst thing ever. You're counting down the days for something you don't know if it's even going to happen -- you're expecting it to take control of your life rather than YOU taking control of it.

I've been saying that since forever ..

How is my sexuality anyone's business but my own?

mess, i'm not really scared to come out to my parents i said it in the wrong way

Oh I see. It's up to you if you want to come out I guess. I'm very open to my friends, and it makes me feel happy. I haven't really confirmed my parents about my sexuality, but they never ask. I think they already know it somehow. Nobody HAS to come out, I guess. You choose to.

You don't have to.

I'm going to stay closeted for the rest of my life. I like it a lot and proud of who I am.

To make people understand that people like us do exist and its very normal to be like this. Making them understand that you can't qualify people as gay or heterosexual but good and bad.

Oh! Is there anything stopping u

I didn't necessarily come out, I just got a boyfriend and people figured it out for themselves