Let me spill the tea.

Ok so there is this friend right who I feel is just overbearing and kinda shady. Like for instance me and my best friend were talking about going shopping after christmas break since the beginning of my first semester back in august. He was with us majority of the time we talked about it but I was really paying attention to him since I assume it was going to just be me and her. So earlier while eating in the school cafeteria he ask my best friend what day was she planning to go shopping so he can tag along with her. And I was sitting there like ummm tf? She was like she was going shopping with me on Saturday.

He kinda made saying why would we go on saturday when it would be packed and stuff would be gone. I interjected my self in the conversation saying for the 8 years we've been Best Friends we always went shopping(of this nature) on a Saturday it was fun little ritual we do. The nerve of this ***** to look at me an . He was lucky there is a no fighting rule cause I was about to snatch my jacket off and get into that ass. Then he asks my best friend if she would go shopping with him . I kid you not I put my glasses on and read his ugly stank breath shrimp dick ass for the gods. Bitch thought he was going to snatch my best friend from underneath me. Better check again.

And this is not the only instance of cases like this. Every time we have something planned to do he always pops his ugly self in the equation trying to make himself involved. Like if we plan to go eat at a certain time he will try to get her to eat before that time or wait for him to finish with his class . Or when we go out to do thing with other friends hell make sure to try to exclude me from the conversations . I'm getting to my last nerve before I just whoop his ass.

And the funny thing he wasn't like this in High School. This all start when he tried to sleep with me while we were drunk at a party and I rejected that ass. But hes supposedly "straight" tho .

Do yall have/had friends like this?

he always pops his ugly self in the equation trying to make himself evolved


I wanna evolve too

Mess @ your user title

And no I do not. I keep everyone at a distance except for my S/O so they could never

Mess thanks for catching that .

are u openly homo? if he still tries to do that i would expose ha! well not expose but i would make sure to make shady comments about his sexual orientation x

yes, in primary school

I get what you mean, about people who treat friends as like territory. It's so ****in' annoying

I don't really, but I have one friend who this socially awkward as **** straight guy. He's really annoying, a bit misogynistic, and chatting with him is annoying because he plays devils advocate and if FB says that I saw his message and I don't reply he'll ALWAYS call me out on it. Like, the ****, maybe I'm just busy?

That sounds really annoying. I'd just talk to your best friend about the situations in general and ask her to help you out when he tries to exclude you or tell her to make an excuse not to eat with him when you have plans. That's if she feels his annoying too. If she considers him a good friend then I wouldn't ask her to start ignoring him since that would just cause problems.

For the first part though about your shopping plans, don't talk about it around him. I feel like in general if you're talking to someone you're not including in your plans then it's just plain rude and it's kind of fair game if the person asks to be included.

I enjoy your threads you always brings something different to the table.

I used to have a friend like that.

But, now I'm not friends with either one of them now so

Ohh, maybe he likes you and he's getting some kind of 'revenge' because you rejected him

Your threads are AMAZING.

Ffff I am the overbearing friend in most cases