Discussion: Bi-curious guy questions if his Str8 friend is his BF

MikeyDuff1D

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“ProbablyGay1” detailed his relationship with his pal Ian, presenting evidence that their bond might be stronger than either one is letting on:

"·Ian HATES being touched. At first I noticed that he was uncomfortable when I’d touch him so I didn’t. After a while, HE started doing it. When we’re alone, he’ll move next to me and put his head on my shoulder. It’s kind of adorable. Now we’re physical all the time-not sexually, but he’ll lean against me if we’re standing together, or put his arm around my shoulder.

·At first when we slept over one of us would sleep on the floor or couch or something. Now we just share beds. I’ve woken up with his arm around me before. Not gonna lie; my heart did embarrassing things the first time that happened. I woke up before him and just thought about how nice this was, and how lucky I was. He woke up a few minutes later and we looked at each other smiling, and then I said, “Gay.” And we both burst out laughing.

·We go on each other’s family vacations.

·Once he went on a research trip for college. When he came back he told me he identified a new type of thing (I’m being vague, his major is weirdly specific). He said he named it after me. I was kind of floored, and asked him why. He said, “Who else would I name it after?”

·Neither of us have dated anyone recently. Personally, I just haven’t felt inclined. I think maybe it’s because I already feel like I have Ian. I don’t have a gender preference and my friends know this. Ian has always been vague about his orientation.

·We go places alone a lot, like the beach. Once I was having a bad day and he surprised me by showing up my house and knocking on my window. He drove us to the top of a mountain, and we climbed into the back seat and just laid there together for hours.

·While we’re in college, he sends me cute messages. Like “I miss you,” “Something reminded me of you,” etc. I found out from his friends that he talks about me a lot, which is a relief because I talk about him to my friends all the time. We mail each other gifts sometimes. He sends me samples of specimens from his research, like cool rocks or leaves. It sounds dumb, literally receiving rocks and leaves in the mail, but you bet your ass I have a whole shelf devoted to that ****."

http://www.lgbtqnation.com/2015/10/c...ay-imaginable/

FloridaKilos

Tldr but that's cute. Date ha!

Almodusa

So cute aw

Satan

Aw that's so sweet and cute

B'Day this could be us

careerfatality

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teas

PrettyHurts

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ProbablyGay1

this sounds kinda fake, and if it isn't he's so cringe

Mimie

Wes and Sam teas.

Mezter

Not this being an article

Icarus

Not "ProbablyGay1"

Quiqui4eva

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·We go places alone a lot, like the beach. Once I was having a bad day and he surprised me by showing up my house and knocking on my window. He drove us to the top of a mountain, and we climbed into the back seat and just laid there together for hours.

This some straight up couple ****. I want this

Newt

why is this an article?

but, dat's cute, relationship goals

Opacho

Sounds fake, but... I know a straight guy who said something similar to this to me but there was no mushiness. It was more like 'you know, it's weird how easy it is to hug you compared to our straight friends, it feels nice'. He knows I'm gay obviously, so Idk, it could be legit but from my experience straight guys don't romanticize as much as this person does.

Cheetos

I had this exact relationship myself. I'm not close to him anymore

too unhealthy.

Nemo

Is he me

MusicTalker

They definitely have the chemistry, so might as well call it a relationship.

SweetTalker

This kinda happened to me too with 2 of my straight best friends

wesleywalrus

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Originally posted by Duke.

Wes and Sam teas.

Summerboy95

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Originally posted by careerfatality

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teas

Sunshine.

Honestly, it's not that special. I've had all kinds of encounters with straight guys. Who literally have all turned out to be straight and actively enter relationship with women. One dude I sucked, some guys I circle jerked with, another one we came close to anal...and it's a joke between us now...he has a girlfriend and everything. One of my friends now I'm very touchy-feely with and we act cute together. He has a gf and they have a dog (so they're basically married).

People need to let all these presumptions and labels GO! Just do what feels right between the two of you. If it's sex fine, if it's cuddling fine, if it's none of that fine. Who cares if you identify as straight, gay, bicurious? Your body isn't a slave to social constructs. It reacts how it wants to. It feels what it wants to. So might as well vibe with it and stop trying to resist.

Bright

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Originally posted by IcarusIsFlying

Not "ProbablyGay1"