This very much. He's kinda a poor judge of character a lot of times. He has some mental things going on and I think it clouds his judgement a lot, so he wants to see a psychiatrist. The main problem for me now is that after I told him over and over I didn't trust this guy and I didn't want him going over there, the first thing he does when I leave is go stay the night at his house. According to him, the guy came in right when he woke up, kissed him, and left and he had no control over it. I really don't know if I can trust him at all. Then he found out how I found out about the kiss (hacking his snapchat and getting the other guy to confess thinking it was him) and he got super mad about that, like what I did was worse than what he did, so that also makes me want to end things. But yesterday I just felt terrible all day, like I couldn't handle losing him, and the only thing that made me feel better was seeing him, so it's all super ****ed up. I told him I hadn't made up my mind yet and figured out if he was worth it, so I haven't decided what to do still. I mean, behind this he's been super sweet and loving and amazing for most of the time we've been together. I just wish he didn't have to **** up so bad.

It's very serious for me

If you can't trust him then it's already over. Trust the people with experience.

If there's no trust then it's over. I'm typing this after arguing with my ex just now for the last time. It's not worth it, but you learn a lot from each experience. Stay strong

It depends on the circumstances... platonic kiss is one thing but passionate kiss is another. I don't like it when a guy cheats on me without us having a discussion about the direction of the relationship first. If they want an open relationship then fine but be up front about it.

expose the married man to his husband

It finally happened... we broke up. This hurts so bad

My impact!

Hope you're okay.

Thinking of you, sis. <3

feel better. i know it hurts but if he's the type to do that then it wasn't worth it to begin with. it's probably for the best. hope ure okay

That's cheating so yes.

Aw I wanted to post but I was banned. I would've said, you are young and have a lot of time so don't rush into a decision, it may seem bad at first but things can work themselves out with forgiveness. I guess that goes to anybody else who may experience a problem like this too. Anyway, sorry that you broke up but seemingly it is for better at this stage, I think while it's acceptable to be upset at first hopefully you won't feel too bad because there are endless possibilities ahead

I hope you're ok but if he's betraying your trust and cheating, he isn't worth your time and you'll find somebody that is. I'm here if you need somebody to talk to, I went through a horrible break up in summer 2014, I know how heartbreaking it is.

Believe me. Time heals. Just remember this: In an amount of time, you will get over this and the best has yet to come. You will feel better later so just stay strong for now.

Also, I always believe this, 'Anything happens for a reason and it's all FAITH'. So let it be, if you guys are really over it's really over. If God doesn't want you guys to separate than one way or another you guys will get back.

You kinda answered your own question.

Does the OP only come on here to talk about his relationship?

thanks guys
He said he didn't feel like he could put in the effort, that things had changed too much and there was no way he could save us. So on both of our parts it was over. I still almost wish we could work it out but I also realize it's for the better and I need to move on and not dwell on this.
Thank you, I'm surrounding myself with good friends and family right now but I'll hit you up if I need something more. You're right though, I deserve better and someday I'll find better. I just wish I could skip this middle step where I feel like **** all day
Thank you, that helps
Yes, blogs are closed and I have a lot of feelings

Feel better
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I honestly think you should the ither guys husband on what happened. I know I would like to know, if something like that happened to me