have you guys ever wanted an ex boyfriend back in your life, as a boyfriend or even as a friend?

well i was in my teens when i was with him and he was my first ever bf but i was so dramatic and scared him off but now I'm 21 and more mature and realize I will never find anyone like him. what can i do to win him back as whenever I try to schedule to hang out he stops texting me lol

but he always be messaging me when i change my grindr profile to "Hosting" and wants to know who I'm seeing,

should i buy him a christmas present along with a card attached saying how sorry I am

send him bussy pics

"Hello, it's me."

"I was wondering if after all these years you'd like to meet to go over everything"

i tried but he's not the kind of gay guy who falls for that, he's a romantic which is why I'm still in love with him

You are a mess girl. You are young and need to move on since he clearly doesn't want you.


Either that or stop kissing his ass, maybe he'll see what he's missing... If anything.

Try again but use a filter

Ok better yet go to his house if you know where he lives....do you still have a key to his place? If not just sneak in somehow.

Go in and just wait in his closet and listen for him to get sad or be put in a bad mood and then pop out and give him amazing advice and make him feel better. Romantic guys love that stuff

start seeing other guys.

Either tell him you'd like another go at it because you've matured or you kick him from your life. Do not dwell. It'll only cause you pain.

If he fights to stay in your life, maybe there's something there. But from my experience exes only stay in contact because they don't know how to cut the strings themselves

asdfghjkl bye

I have threatened to go to his house all the time but he's like an hour away on train so Im too lazy to just pop up when no one could be home

but he has popped up on my place and rang my doorbell once when my parents were home bc I was mad at him and didnt want to see him, and I wasn't out at that time and lived at home, I almost sh*t my pants so i feel like I should get even

You're gonna hate me for this (because I know how these messages makes feel when you're on that situation) but you should let him go. Right, he's showing some signs but not completely, maybe you're not reading completely correct those signs.

Maybe he's just an asshole and just doesn't want you to be seeing any other guy but he's not into you, either. It's kinda a complicated situation, but sometimes it happens. It's just happens when a man is an asshole.

You should just think about getting him back. You should try with another people, see what it could happen, then you will see if you really miss him or you realise you deserve so much better and it's time to move on

Ive hanged out with guys but I haven't been on a date since him, we were together for 2 years, I haven't found anyone like him, like I wanted to be married to him and have a surrogate to have 3 mixed white/dominican babies

never.
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