Have you experienced any/both of them?

I was wondering how being raped affects life. How is it compared to being bullied daily?
I think rape is worse, isn't it? I can't speak about it because I haven't experienced it fortunately
However, I was bullied for a few years in middle school by the same group of people almost daily. This experience ruined my social life and made me a reserved person. I can't get close to other people and feel especially cold and restrained among all guys (these were male students who bullied me). Btw, music video Grimes - Oblivion inspired this topic
How does the rape experience ruin life? Is it worse? I'd like to know an opinion on this heartbreaking issue (it's a common topic in music)
