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Discussion: 11 Reasons You're Still Single
Member Since: 8/19/2013
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11 Reasons You're Still Single
1. Because you're not interested in becoming a "piece of furniture." Too many men seek guys who fit their idea of a perfect partner: perfect job, perfect look, perfect friends, perfect for an Ikea ad.
2. Because equal rights doesn't automatically equal rush to marriage.
3. Because you're not in a position to commit. Many things in life take precedence over a relationship: a job, finances, a drug or alcohol problem (his or yours), illness, the list goes on.
4. Because you believe in love, not less.
5. Because he's unkind. He's got a body so amazing everyone steals it for their Grindr pics. He's fantastic in bed, a fit so good you want to lock him up forever. And the looks he gets from other guys should be criminal. Problem is, Hottie McPerfect is also sharing his Grindr pics with everyone else, his key's unlocked men all over town, and his lies about fidelity should be illegal. It's nice to indulge in a dreamboat, but if this guy is the Titanic of dates, get a lifeboat and jump ship.
6. Because you're just not that into monogamy, and he is.
7...Or children.
8. Because you just haven't met him yet. Social Media leads us to believe that the right guy is just a swipe or woof or OKDate away. And in today's gay-visible world you no longer have to shy away from approaching Bubble McGreatAss to ask for a coffee date. It's also easy to assume that, since you've been searching for your soul mate for 6 months and are still alone on Saturday nights, there must be something wrong with you. But meeting men has never been easy, no matter where you live or whatever your age or what you do for a living, and meeting a guy who makes your heart flutter just doesn't happen that often. Concentrate on, and love, yourself. That's your most attractive trait.
9. Because he's emotionally unavailable.
10. Because you're not living in your parents' world anymore.
11. Because you prefer it that way. And there's nothing wrong with that.
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Do you all agree?
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Member Since: 5/1/2011
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I am single because i'm a b*tch basically 
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Member Since: 3/25/2012
Posts: 10,076
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What is this 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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I'm single because I'm.... It starts with a "u" and ends with a "y". A 4 letter word 
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Member Since: 3/26/2012
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Originally posted by ■YoungCalifornia■
I'm single because I'm.... It starts with a "u" and ends with a "y". A 4 letter word 
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its ok im undy too
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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1. Because you're not interested in becoming a "piece of furniture." Too many men seek guys who fit their idea of a perfect partner: perfect job, perfect look, perfect friends, perfect for an Ikea ad.
this one is stupid
2. Because equal rights doesn't automatically equal rush to marriage.
Being in a relationship does not equal marriage
3. Because you're not in a position to commit. Many things in life take precedence over a relationship: a job, finances, a drug or alcohol problem (his or yours), illness, the list goes on.
ok?
4. Because you believe in love, not less.
5. Because he's unkind. He's got a body so amazing everyone steals it for their Grindr pics. He's fantastic in bed, a fit so good you want to lock him up forever. And the looks he gets from other guys should be criminal. Problem is, Hottie McPerfect is also sharing his Grindr pics with everyone else, his key's unlocked men all over town, and his lies about fidelity should be illegal. It's nice to indulge in a dreamboat, but if this guy is the Titanic of dates, get a lifeboat and jump ship.
clearly the guy is only into hooking up, no need to **** shame
6. Because you're just not that into monogamy, and he is.
7...Or children.
Valid
8. Because you just haven't met him yet. Social Media leads us to believe that the right guy is just a swipe or woof or OKDate away. And in today's gay-visible world you no longer have to shy away from approaching Bubble McGreatAss to ask for a coffee date. It's also easy to assume that, since you've been searching for your soul mate for 6 months and are still alone on Saturday nights, there must be something wrong with you. But meeting men has never been easy, no matter where you live or whatever your age or what you do for a living, and meeting a guy who makes your heart flutter just doesn't happen that often. Concentrate on, and love, yourself. That's your most attractive trait.
Shut the **** up
9. Because he's emotionally unavailable.
maybe because you do stupid **** like this, like writing articles
10. Because you're not living in your parents' world anymore.
im guessing you mean dating who your parents would like?
11. Because you prefer it that way. And there's nothing wrong with that.
THEN WHY WRITE THE ARTICLE? if youre happy being single then be single
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Most of those, if not all, apply to me 
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by TheLuckyOnes
1. Because you're not interested in becoming a "piece of furniture." Too many men seek guys who fit their idea of a perfect partner: perfect job, perfect look, perfect friends, perfect for an Ikea ad.
this one is stupid
2. Because equal rights doesn't automatically equal rush to marriage.
Being in a relationship does not equal marriage
3. Because you're not in a position to commit. Many things in life take precedence over a relationship: a job, finances, a drug or alcohol problem (his or yours), illness, the list goes on.
ok?
4. Because you believe in love, not less.
5. Because he's unkind. He's got a body so amazing everyone steals it for their Grindr pics. He's fantastic in bed, a fit so good you want to lock him up forever. And the looks he gets from other guys should be criminal. Problem is, Hottie McPerfect is also sharing his Grindr pics with everyone else, his key's unlocked men all over town, and his lies about fidelity should be illegal. It's nice to indulge in a dreamboat, but if this guy is the Titanic of dates, get a lifeboat and jump ship.
clearly the guy is only into hooking up, no need to **** shame
6. Because you're just not that into monogamy, and he is.
7...Or children.
Valid
8. Because you just haven't met him yet. Social Media leads us to believe that the right guy is just a swipe or woof or OKDate away. And in today's gay-visible world you no longer have to shy away from approaching Bubble McGreatAss to ask for a coffee date. It's also easy to assume that, since you've been searching for your soul mate for 6 months and are still alone on Saturday nights, there must be something wrong with you. But meeting men has never been easy, no matter where you live or whatever your age or what you do for a living, and meeting a guy who makes your heart flutter just doesn't happen that often. Concentrate on, and love, yourself. That's your most attractive trait.
Shut the **** up
9. Because he's emotionally unavailable.
maybe because you do stupid **** like this, like writing articles
10. Because you're not living in your parents' world anymore.
im guessing you mean dating who your parents would like?
11. Because you prefer it that way. And there's nothing wrong with that.
THEN WHY WRITE THE ARTICLE? if youre happy being single then be single
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Member Since: 5/19/2011
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4. Because you believe in love, not less.
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Corny, but...
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Originally posted by Donquizote
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my post was aggressive, i know.
Its been a rough week 
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Member Since: 1/16/2011
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5. Because he's unkind. He's got a body so amazing everyone steals it for their Grindr pics. He's fantastic in bed, a fit so good you want to lock him up forever. And the looks he gets from other guys should be criminal. Problem is, Hottie McPerfect is also sharing his Grindr pics with everyone else, his key's unlocked men all over town, and his lies about fidelity should be illegal. It's nice to indulge in a dreamboat, but if this guy is the Titanic of dates, get a lifeboat and jump ship.
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Why would someone even waste their time on a guy like this though?
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Member Since: 3/14/2013
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11 and 8 are the reasons why I'm single I guess,
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Quote:
Originally posted by Can't_M!ss_This
I'm single because I want to be. Also the court ordered me to be for 3 years
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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I don't see "because you're emotionally unstable and have horribly low self esteem", delete it fat.
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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8. Because you just haven't met him yet. Social Media leads us to believe that the right guy is just a swipe or woof or OKDate away. And in today's gay-visible world you no longer have to shy away from approaching Bubble McGreatAss to ask for a coffee date. It's also easy to assume that, since you've been searching for your soul mate for 6 months and are still alone on Saturday nights, there must be something wrong with you. But meeting men has never been easy, no matter where you live or whatever your age or what you do for a living, and meeting a guy who makes your heart flutter just doesn't happen that often. Concentrate on, and love, yourself. That's your most attractive trait.
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probably the one I relate to the most
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Member Since: 5/14/2009
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1,4,5,8 & 9 is all I've encounters in tha past 10 years with tha exception of 1. He's my best friend now though
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Member Since: 5/14/2009
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Quote:
Originally posted by ■YoungCalifornia■
I'm single because I'm.... It starts with a "u" and ends with a "y". A 4 letter word 
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You are really insecure boo  I'm gonna send you a message
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by Indie
I don't see "because you're emotionally unstable and have horribly low self esteem", delete it fat.
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Member Since: 5/14/2009
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Originally posted by Auburn
Why would someone even waste their time on a guy like this though?
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Have you not watched reality shows sis? That's all these guys are these days. Lyin cheatin hoes who can't stick to one hole. It's a bit of a mess
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Idk, I basically just like to **** with as many good looking guys as I want to without wanting the other person to have the same right.
I also don't like sleeping with somebody, but I am thinking about getting myself a dog now as long as it doesn't ruin my timing for workout & hook-ups.
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