Why do so many people here assume that feminine guys can't be tops ?

It's quite annoying tbh.

And also why is it looked down upon guys who are more feminine ?

For example Joe and Nick Jonas.

Y'all praise Nick all the time and hate on Joe and call him a bottom

1. A feminine guy can be a top too.
2. Y'all are exposing yourselves as bottoms when you stan for Nick's manliness (nothing bad, but y'all are acting as if someone is a bottom is a bad thing)

Is it because the majority of the gays here are bottoms ? Or is it because of the self hate ... ? I don't understand.

And also from my experience a lot of bottoms are more masculine and vice versa, which is pretty normal, but not on ATRL.

Joe Jonas is kind of cute and kind of feminine, so he must be a bottom, very close minded no ?

The tea. I met several feminine guys who are pure Tops

Drag them, Mariano!

If the D is bomb I don't care if ya is a femme...

But I like to be slaughtered in bed and the last time I bottomed for a feminine guy it was just meh.

Would you want a hunty to top you?

Who cares what atrl thinks?

im vers and yes

I never understood why people use 'bottom' as an insult, like okay? And what? Must be self hate. Isn't Chris Crocker a top too?

Ya'll can go ahead and groan me but I personall find absolutely nothing exciting about a feminine guy trying to be a top. It just doesn't seem right in my head but if you find exciting to bottom to the likes of SAM SMITH then good for you baby girl.

I actually find it very hot when twinks are tops.

And no I wouldn't want a hunty to top me, but not because I think they should be a bottom, I probably wouldn't want to TOP them either. Unless I really like them, then I wouldn't care.

But when you put it "hunty" I think of someone that would probably not be my type and not cuz of their femininity, but other traits we all know very well

This is close minded. It seems like you already have a picture in your head about a feminine guy "The likes of Sam Smith"

There are all types of feminine guys

And I am also talking about twinks. Some twinks even act masculine, but y'all will see a picture and will say "Bottom ! "

Of course feminine guys can be tops. Hell there's pre-op transgenders who are strictly tops.

I think you know

What sort of idiotic way of thinking though. Each to their own I guess.

btw my thread is also a bit close minded, the way I am putting it as if Joe is gay.

I apologize, there can also be feminine guys that are straight (obviously), but now that is more the gay in me wanting Joe to be gay cuz I like him and nothing more than that

Edit: Joe is not even that feminine tbh