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Originally posted by cloudinthesky
Mte. Exactly why more men don't feel comfortable exploring their sexuality, because of this double standard that if a guy does anything gay even once, he's automatically gay4life. Not to mention all the bi-erasure that goes on constantly in cases like this. Some people like more than just one sex. Deal. It doesn't take away from the enjoyment they get out of whomever they happen to be dating at the time.  |
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Originally posted by Mat.91
Sorry If I tell you, but that was a bit ignorant of you and your friend. You know, he could have been bisexual too. And what's wrong if a straight guy likes to be fingered? everybody has an ass, not only girls and gay guys. Even straight guys got one. The double standards and stereotypes here are huge. That's a very sensitive part for pleasure and there's nothing wrong with it. He was probably open minded or at least bi-curious and you labelled him and shamed him.
Good job.
And as of the **** thing. Well, I watch straight **** all the time, that doesn't make me straight, unfortunately. At all.
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Nobody shamed him. She asked if he was gay and he blew up on her. A simple no or yes or im bisexual wouldve suffice but when your boyfriend is talking to guys on grindr and watching gay ****, its goes a little beyond being curious
