I was obese as a kid & yes, I do blame my mother.
Thankfully I was self aware of the situation just before hitting puberty and lost the weight by my own.

This.

you could until you know why. otherwise youre dragging yourself.

Seems like most people on ATRL are not fat/obese

but the fat/obese ones seemed to do blame their parents/family

You cannot blame anyone for your own mistakes. You control your own life and the decisions you make in it.

IDK, I don't think it's this black and white.

Eating habits as an adult are shaped principally by what's taught as a child, which would need to be "unlearned." I imagine that can be challenging.

It is fair to blame your parents as a child but once you are no longer under their rule its a bit unfair to blame them for the fact that you jam too much crap in your mouth. Yes, they did sort of send you off in a bad direction but by that point you should know better.

Can't say really.

Im skinny so idk

Yes I blame my parents!

My Dad would take me to McDonald's to get a happy meal every weekend

My Mom would buy junk processed food like Corn Dogs, Top Ramen Noodles, etc.


I hate being fat

Yes it's all their fault

Nope. I wish I could gain some weight, instead.