Nnnn but is eating a few more bites really worse than wasting food?
In my opinion, yes.
I'm not referring to children who only eat a third of their meal and then claim they're full - at that point, the child is clearly under-eating, so then it would be important for parents to encourage them to eat more so that they develop properly. But if it comes down to just "a few more bites" like you say, then what exactly is the point of forcing your child to finish the food? Pure principle? Teaching them to be thankful for what they have? They can be thankful for their meal while still not wanting to finish the entire thing. It's not like a few bites is enough to have made a whole new meal. What exactly are you "wasting" by not eating a few bites?
Maybe I'm missing something, but I just never understood the point of this mentality
I don't think most people says 'South Africa' Never heard of that. They say 'Africa'.
Anyway I think because back in the day, there were these raised money telethons on TV (Yes there was no Cable and only a few channels - so a lot of people experice these). Some of these Telethons were used to raised money for food to help dying hungry children in few countries in African at the time, like in Sudan and Ethiopia and some other countries. So the images of skinny dying children prompted a reaction on many people to help and some of the images they saw stay in marked on their heads. So I think that also contributed to parents and so forth to say that phrase to their children about eating their food 'because there are starving children in Africa'.
Here is some background:
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In the 1980s, the Feed the Children campaign was aired in the United States. Featuring impoverished children in need of food and essential supplies, television coverage provided an outlet for visibility. David Dunn Productions filmed the plight of children in need while on location in Africa, bringing home the need for donations. Feed The Children domestic programs are focused on distributing essential items to needy families. Corporate partners donate surplus food and other supplies. Feed The Children's wholly owned for-profit subsidiary, FTC Transportation, Inc., picks up in-kind contributions from corporate warehouses and brings them to one of five Feed The Children regional distribution centers. The supplies and boxes are then delivered to pre-approved, independent partner agencies that, in turn, distribute the supplies through over 50,000 feeding centers, homeless shelters, churches and various other organizations located in communities across the U.S.
URGH yes, my sister always says starving children in Africa. I hate that quote.
1) How's that supposed to make me feel better
2) There's starving children everywhere (although the media portrays Africa as poor so no surprise there)
3) That quote is so iconic that when you throw away food on TS3, they say there's starving children in Strangetown
I don't think it's a 'guilt trip', per se, but a reminder that there are actually people starving while you are throwing food away. Irrespective of where.
Well my Mom never used South Africa specifically because she's originally from there and she wasn't starving
She did use Africa in general the odd time, but for the most part, neither of my parents used it. I've always hated that guilt trip, especially when it comes to not finishing your meal. In addition to the fact that it just doesn't make sense logically, it encourages children from a very young age to continue eating even when they're already full, which can lead to really bad eating habits and their slew of negative effects when that child grows up. I honestly believe that a child indicating to their parents when they're full should be encouraged, not reprimanded or guilted.
This is my family. We live in South AFRICA but every now and then you hear parents saying that there are starving children in Africa now eat up your gnocchi & caviar