Trust me.. it literally still lingers with me. I keep thinking of why he cheated on me and what it was about me that he didn't feel like staying faithful too

And yeah. Just try to move on and find someone worth your time. But there's too extremes. Cause my 2nd bf was so clingy and attached and I never had any doubts he would cheat on me. But he was also bleh looking.

I'm afraid that it'll linger yes, I'm the type of person who can kind of let it go but it'll always find a new place within my head.
+ Exactly ! Those questions are the absolute worst because I know I shouldn't ask myself these questions.

Yeah, I think the next one will have to do his best to impress me tbh.
Normally I'm very hard to reach when it comes to love (to avoid situations like this one) but this time I let my guard down and just went with it and we see how that ended...
So, I'll def. remember this lesson for the next time.

Not gonna date for a few months first though...

Nop thanks god.

Getting cheated on is one of my biggest fears. I already have trust issues, I can't imagine how I would be after being cheated on. I'd be a mess

But yeah, cheating is horrible. Why commit to something if you're going to go mess around with other people? No one should ever forgive someone for cheating. It's unforgivable and nobody deserves it no matter the circumstances.

Words of wisdom, tbh.

Sure.

The first guy who gave me my first kiss had a boyfriend for over 2 years i thought people dont Do that stuff but looks like i was just a side bitch for him. I am glad i didnt do anything more than a kiss

People are such assholes sometimes, that said, you should be glad you didn't do more because trust me, it stings a lot more if you actually did.

god this thread