I just don't like real stiffy looking, perfect hair.
You know what it looks like? It looks like you are very anal with everything you do in your life; and anal translates to me as someone who's probably a pain in the behind with everything - ordering at the coffee shop, being your friend, being your daughter"
For those who don't get it or don't want to watch.
Anal here means 'up tight' and she said so because Taylor's hair was looking too perfect. She wants Taylor to loosen up a little. If you're a positive person you'll take this as a compliment, if you're anal you'll drag her.